Xtasy IX: Leather $lut - IML Weekend with DJs Von, Flores Negras, BiLatinBby, Jon McCray
Xtasy returns for Leather $lut during International Mr. Leather weekend.
Xtasy is a Berlin inspired sex-positive, bi/pansexual centered rave for kinksters, queers, freaks, non-monogamous people, $ex-worker and everyone who identifies as a $lut.
IMPORTANT ENTRY POLICY
Pre-sale tickets do not guarantee entry. Every guest is subject to a vibe check and strict dress code enforcement at the door. If you miss the mark, you will be refunded and turned away.
This isn’t about exclusion for the sake of it; it’s about protecting the space, the energy, and the people inside it.
MUSIC
Upstairs
Von (NYC)
Flores Negras
Jon McCray
Downstairs – The Dungeon
Bilatinbby
DRESS CODE
Xtasy is a dress-coded, curated kink space. What you wear matters. It signals participation, consent, and respect for the environment.
Core dress code includes: leather, fetish wear, harnesses, latex, lace, lingerie, kink gear, $lutty rave, and gender-bending looks.
No streetwear. No casual clubwear. No jeans.
LEATHER $LUT: OUTFIT DIRECTION
Pull from leather history, queer lineage, and your own relationship to power, sex, and identity.
Pick a lane and build a look:
1. Classic Leather / Bar Culture / Butch-Stud
The foundation. Rooted in queer history and lived-in leather culture.
Black leather jackets, vests, boots, caps. Harnesses, jockstraps, chains, gloves. Denim cutoffs
2. Punk Leather
Messy, DIY, anti-authority.
Studs, spikes, patches. Distressed leather. Leather mixed with fishnets or rough textures.
3. BDSM / Fetish Leather
Full harness systems, restraints, collars. Masks, hoods, blindfolds. Structured silhouettes.
4. Femme Leather
Leather through a femme, or high-glam lens.
Corsets, skirts, heels, thigh-high boots. Harness layering over lingerie or lace.
5. Industrial Techno / Rave Leather Hybrid
Black-on-black, minimal, body-focused. Leather mixed with mesh, neoprene, or techwear. Harnesses integrated into the full look.
6. Leather + Lace / Soft Kink Contrast
Leather paired with lace, sheer fabrics, or delicate pieces. Masculine/feminine contrast.
Power and vulnerability at the same time.
Reminder:
Harness + black shorts is the baseline; not the goal.
THE FLOORS
Main Floor (Upstairs)
Primary dance floor. .
Social Area (Upstairs)
Chill no pressure hangout for drinking and yapping.
Smoking Area (Upstairs)
Enclosed and gated outside area for smoking amd hanging out.
The Dungeon (Downstairs)
A dedicated play space with a separate soundscape and trained dungeon staff. A separate smaller dancefloor Play is only permitted downstairs.
ADDITIONAL DETAILS
Doors at 9PM
Dungeon open 9PM–3:15AM
“Arrive Before 10” tickets must be scanned by 10:30PM or a $19 late fee applies.
No refunds unless the event is canceled or rescheduled.
By attending, you consent to photography in designated areas and waive liability for Slut’s Party Chi (J&NParties) and Jackhammer (Two Bears Tavern).
SAFETY & VIBE
This is a consent-forward space.
All guests are vetted through ticketing and door checks.
Consent monitors are present on both floors.
No phones or photography on the dance floor or in the dungeon — camera stickers enforced.
All staff are trained for play party environments. No volunteers downstairs. Drink covers available.
Respect the space, or you will be removed.